Bob Dylan, Revisited

Image courtesy of ImdB.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you may recall that I’ve written two other posts about Bob Dylan. Thus, the name of this post. Here’s another one!

I watched two Bob Dylan movies recently. The first, “A Complete Unknown,” inspired me to watch the second, “No Direction Home,” so I could get a better picture of the famous singer who spent his early years in my part of the world. I’m glad I watched both.

Of course, the first movie is the one that’s out in theaters now. It features Timothée Chalamet, the dishy French-American actor who portrays Dylan in his early years. Based on the book, “Dylan Goes Electric,” by Elijah Wald, the story begins with Dylan “escaping” his college experience at the University of Minnesota and traveling to New York City to meet his folk music hero, Woodie Guthrie, who was hospitalized with a neurological illness. Another folkie, Pete Seeger, takes Dylan under his wing, and his rise to stardom begins.

I liked that the story was told mainly through music; this was much more effective than a lot of talking. Chalamet’s portrayal of Dylan is superb as are the performances by the two actresses who portray his love interests from that time: Elle Fanning who plays his girlfriend Suze Rotolo/Sylvie Russo, and Monica Barbaro who plays singer Joan Baez. It helped me understand the pressures Dylan was under as a person and an artist. Even Dylan, who was an executive producer for the movie, liked it, so that’s saying something!

The movie concludes with Dylan’s performance in 1965 at the Newport Folk Festival, where he was backed by an electric band. The audience of folk purists and political activists reacted badly, with booing and shouts. Some people just couldn’t handle that something they loved had changed. As Google says, his performance, “was a shot heard round the world—Dylan’s declaration of musical independence, the end of the folk revival, and the birth of rock as the voice of a generation—and one of the defining moments in twentieth-century music.” There are still people who are upset by what they perceive as Dylan’s turning his back on acoustic folk music and political activism.

As I mentioned, “A Complete Unknown” left me wanting to know more, so I watched “No Direction Home,” a 2005 documentary by Martin Scorsese that’s available through PBS. It follows Dylan’s life for a year longer than the current movie, and features in-person interviews with Dylan, poet Allen Ginsberg, Suze Rotolo, Joan Baez, and Pete Seeger.

Seeing/hearing Dylan describe events from his life in his own words was so interesting! According to Wikipedia, the movie was well-received. It “creates a portrait that is deep, sympathetic, perceptive and yet finally leaves Dylan shrouded in mystery, which is where he properly lives.”

So, if like me, you found yourself wanting more after watching “A Complete Unknown,” I highly recommend “No Direction Home.” It helped me understand why there’s not a snowball’s chance in hell that Dylan will ever come back to Duluth no matter how we try to honor him. (The city has named a street after him, but he didn’t show up, much to the city’s dismay. He didn’t even show up for his Nobel Prize; he sure isn’t going to come back to Duluth!) We need to just leave the man alone.

Also, Suze Rotolo wrote a memoir about her time with Dylan, titled, “A Freewheelin’ Time,” which I plan to read someday.

I still remain happy that I’m not famous like Dylan. See my blog post from 2017 that explains why. Have you seen “A Complete Unknown?” If so, I’d love to hear your thoughts about the movie.

“The Path of Totality” Book Review

Fellow writer and blogging friend Vickie Smith was kind enough to review my upcoming short story collection for the Wisconsin Writers Association. You can find the review here, plus a link to preorder the book at a discount. (It’s coming out on Feb. 11.) You can find out more about Vickie at her blog, “Writing Near the Lake.”

Like me, Vickie lives near Lake Superior. We support each other as writers, and I hope to return the reviewing favor when her first book is published!

Here’s an excerpt from her review: Zhuikov’s stories explore a wide range of human emotions – grief, duplicity, curiosity, loneliness, love, obsession, and fear – against a backdrop of both rural and urban worlds filled with the inexplicable, the mystical, and the paranormal. She skillfully combines these human emotions with well-crafted imaginative worlds as she delves into the everyday desires and struggles people face, making her tales intriguing reads to be enjoyed by everyone.

“Hot Frosty” Movie Guest Review and an Updated Drinking Game List

Image courtesy of Netflix

Russ and I are fans of National Public Radio’s “Wait, Wait, Don’t Tell Me” news quiz humor show. In a recent edition, host Peter Sagal mentioned that holiday movies are being produced with a decidedly sexy bent. He named one in particular: “Hot Frosty.” This Netflix production is about a muscular snowman who comes to life after a young widow drapes him with a scarf that has magical properties. Needless to say, he keeps his “hot” physique once he’s human, and romance ensues. But he also keeps some of his cold properties, too, such as a penchant for eating ice and a below-freezing body temperature.

We decided that “Hot Frosty” was a good candidate for a drinking game, even though it wasn’t an official Hallmark movie. We set a date with my friend Sharon, with whom we had a riotous time four years ago enacting and enhancing this drinking game list.

This living snowman causes quite a stir while fixing a roof. Image courtesy of Netflix.

Although “Hot Frosty” didn’t contain as many troupes as a Hallmark movie, we still had fun watching it. In fact, it inspired us to enlarge our game list with a few new rules. I’ll post the revised version below Sharon’s review of the movie. Please note: Sharon provided this review after drinking to drown her sorrows after the Packers lost to the Vikings, and after playing our movie drinking game.

“It’s part PG-rated but it doesn’t go too far in the sexy category. It’s not like “Magic Mike.” Netflix, could you ramp it up a notch? The snowman had an interesting body but no substance.

“Women are usually colder than men. I dunno if it’s from our estrogen or what. We don’t want to snuggle up to men who are colder than we are. We want hot men! If someone was as cold as this guy is, it would put a damper on things.”

So, there you have it. Maybe not all that sexy, and probably too cold, but it was a fun way to spend an evening.

Here’s our freshly revised list.

RULES

Take one drink whenever:

A reference is made to a dead relative
The “Mayor” appears on screen
The main character’s name is related to Christmas (Holly, Nick, etc.)
Anytime someone disses fake Christmas trees
A newcomer partakes in an old family or town tradition
Hot chocolate, apple cider, or eggnog is on screen
A big city person is transplanted to a small town
Christmas caroling, a tree farm, baking cookies, or a snowman appears
Mistletoe or a scarf is on screen
A character makes a magic deal
Any time you hear “Jingle Bells”
The town is named something Christmas-y
An interracial couple appears
An angry, misdirected law enforcement officer appears

Take two drinks whenever:

Characters experience a ‘near-miss’ kiss
An obvious product advertisement appears
A snowball fight, ice skating, or dancing happens
An ugly sweater or tie appears
The characters are snowed in
Someone gets a makeover
A “Pride and Prejudice” reference is introduced (a character is named Darcy, a place named Pemberly)
Someone refers to a metaphor or uses intelligent phrasing
Someone refers to fishing or hunting
Someone with slicked-back hair expresses their hate for Christmas

Finish your drink whenever:

The cynic is filled with the Christmas spirit
It snows on Christmas
Someone selects a Christmas tree
The main characters bake/cook something together, or Christmas-themed food is mentioned
Bad art appears or a literary reference is made
Dissonant architecture appears (for instance, a lighthouse in Wyoming)
Accordion music happens, especially if it’s playing Jingle Bells

Take a shot whenever:

The movie stars Candace Cameron-Bure, Lacey Chabert, or Andrew Walker appear
The main characters fall in love
The main characters kiss

The Top Meanders of 2024

Putting the “Happy” Back into New Years

Twenty twenty-four began with a bang on my blog. One of my first posts of the year was its most popular. It dealt with the death of my sister many years ago during New Years and the effect it had on me and my family. I wrote it as a guest post for the Happiness Between Tails blog. (Thanks again, da-Al!) I plan to raise yet another toast to my sister this New Years.

The Minute Men and the Minister

Second-most-popular was this post about my New England colonial ancestors. I found out rather by happenstance that they founded two towns (one in Massachusetts and one in Canda) and that two statues have been erected in their memory. Also, one penned the famous words: a government of the people, by the people and for the people. All this while I was actually looking for something else! I’m not sure why this post is so popular; perhaps because it deals with some American icons.

If I Were a Real Photographer

I still utter this phrase more often than I would like. Because I remain tied to the workaday world, I cannot run off, camera in hand, to pursue the glorious shots I know that are out there. My retirement is looming, however. This spring, I hope to say that phrase a lot less often, and to have the photos to show for it.

Thank you, dear readers, for following my meanderings through Ireland, Scotland, Georgia, Wisconsin, and Minnesota this year, as well as those more internal meanderings. I wish you a good end to the year and an even better 2025!

Roasted Chestnuts and Cranberry Curd Tart for Christmas

Cranberry curd tart with sugared cranberries and a hazelnut flour crust.

I’ve been trying some new foods this year to get into that Christmas spirit. One was roasted chestnuts. I happened to walk by some in the grocery story and picked them up on impulse. I once ate a roasted chestnut appetizer during a memorable meal at a restaurant in Michigan, and I wanted to see if I could recreate that dish at home.

As it turns out, I unknowingly bought one of the best kind of chestnuts for roasting. Apparently, shoppers can buy ones from Asia, Italy, and South Carolina. The package I bought was from Italy. I found a recipe online and waited until a weekend when I had time to try it. The process takes a while because the chestnuts need to soak to soften. The recipe on the package of chestnuts did not include that step, so I’m glad I looked online. I think it would have been harder to peel the chestnuts if they had not been soaked after being scored.

It also took me a while to score the pound of nuts that I had. I was being careful not to cut myself in the process and my fingers got tired about halfway through, so I took a break. It also takes a while to peel the nuts once they’re cooked. But the results were worth it! The naked nuts look like little tan brains and taste like a cross between a pecan and a walnut.

I was glad that they keep well in the refrigerator or freezer. Russ and I couldn’t eat all of them in one sitting. In fact, I think we still have a few left that we should probably eat today!

The chestnuts after roasting and peeling.

My other festive food was a cranberry curd tart with a hazelnut flour crust and sugared cranberries. I’d made the tart before a few times with a recipe from the New York Times. The recipe appealed to me because it is wheat-free. I cheat a bit—I don’t make my own hazelnut flour. I buy it from Bob’s Red Mill at my grocery store, which usually carries it during this time of year. I also made the recipe easier by not straining the cranberry mixture. I just blend it all up in a blender. That gives it a good color and extra flavor. But I do juice my own orange and grate fresh orange zest.

The sugared cranberries were my new thing for the season. I had some leftover cranberries from making the tart. I’d seen photos of tarts decorated with them and thought it looked fun to try. Like with the chestnuts, the sugaring process for the cranberries takes some time—mostly in waiting for things to dry.

I used this online recipe for the cranberries. I didn’t have any parchment paper, so I used aluminum foil, and that seemed to work just fine. The recipe also includes tips on how to sugar rosemary sprigs to make the pie look more Christmasy. I didn’t have any rosemary, so I simply went outside and clipped off a balsam sprig to decorate the pie. (Note: we did not eat the sprig, it was just for decoration!)

I would advise making the sugared cranberries the same day the pie will be eaten. If the decorated pie is stored overnight in the fridge, the sugar grains tend to “melt,” and you’ll need to take the berries off and re-sugar them. The cranberries can also be eaten by themselves as a snack. They’re great!

So, if you have some time this year and want to try something different, these are two foods to consider. I probably won’t roast chestnuts again, but I’ll for sure make the tart and cranberries during future holiday seasons.

Having Fun with Trolls

Marie and her troll friends.

Russ and I went to one of those outdoor Christmas villages for this first time last weekend. It was in Knife River, which is about 20 miles north of us along the shore of Lake Superior. The village is called Julebyen (pronounced YOOL-eh-BE-en), which (appropriately) means Christmas village in Norwegian. The quaint former fishing village that it’s located in has Norwegian roots. Proceeds from the event support the community.

Outdoor stalls at Julebyen in Knife River, Minnesota.

 Julebyen features ethnic foods (like lefse and krumkake), crafts, holiday decorations, and music. There are also food trucks from local eateries. A train brings visitors up from Duluth and Christmas-themed buses travel from the Twin Cities. We quickly learned that the event is HUGE. Lots of people and lots of fun. Shopping takes place in outdoor stalls and indoors under a couple of large tents. There are candles, pottery, clothing, teas, notecards, wooden sleds, fish, wreaths, honey, jewelry, mittens and honey.

My favorite thing, however, were the trolls. Two men in costume posed for photos and make troll-like comments and jokes with passersby. As you can see, I took advantage of the photo op. In Scandinavian folklore, trolls are supernatural creatures who are dangerous, evil, and hostile to humans. These ones weren’t, though. Trolls are thought to be able to transform themselves, offer prophesies, and steal human maidens. When exposed to sunlight, they explode or turn to stone. This is helpful to know if you ever meet one. Also helpful to know is that lightning kills them instantly.

I assume this is a Norwegian-style fishing boat, with a festive sail for the holidays.

The village also offered a sledding hill, but there wasn’t enough snow yet for that. I’m glad we got to enjoy Julebyen and get into the holiday spirit. I think it’s helping us through some hard times. I just learned by happenstance that my friend Yooper Duane died this year, on my birthday, no less. He was a special soul. We met on Isle Royale National Park in Lake Superior when I was in college and corresponded for years. I’d make a point of visiting him when I traveled across Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. The last time we touched base was by phone when I was on Isle Royale a couple of years ago. He was impressed by the phone call, since such contact was not technologically possible when we both worked on the island. Duane died at the ripe old age of 80. I’ll miss him!

The Knife River, which flows through the town.

Also, this week a family member was hospitalized. That’s all I’ll say about it to preserve this person’s privacy. But it’s a stressful situation that’s difficult for everyone.

Be sure to give your loved ones a hug this holiday season. You never know what the future holds.

It’s a Lego Kind of Christmas, Sort of

I ordered my son a Lego “toy” for Christmas last year. At 25, he’s not a kid anymore, but he has fond memories of putting Legos together in Christmases past. The Lego was a design of the universe with a “you are here” pointer.

That must be how I got back on the Lego mailing list. I received their catalog in the mail last month and noticed it featured some Christmas decorations that could be made from Legos. Russ and I like to put together puzzles in winter. This would be like a three-dimensional puzzle.

How fun! I thought. What a cool holiday activity that we could do. Plus, the grandkids will love seeing it.

I ordered a table decoration that looks like a red candle with a pine wreath around it. It arrived just fine. Russ and I waited until the weekend after Thanksgiving to begin working on it. (I’m one of those people who rails against the encroachment of Christmas on Thanksgiving, so there’s no way we would have done it sooner.)

We started it late one evening when we were already tired, so only made it a few pages into the instructions before we stopped. It was fun. As we built it, I marveled at this engineering feat that would soon turn into a Christmas decoration. We decided to save the rest for the next day when we had more time and energy.

This was where the going got tough.

The next day, building the Lego was fun up until we realized it was built for people with smaller fingers and better eyes than we have. There came one point when every time we added a new element, another one (or two, or three) would fall off. Before long, much festive swearing ensued as our frustration mounted. Oh, and did I tell you the Lego was rated for ages twelve and up? We had to stop working on it to avoid violence. (To the Lego, not to each other.)

The next day, we carefully and slowly approached the Lego decoration again. It was looking nice, but we dared not touch it for fear something would fall off. We did have more mishaps of that sort, but not as many as the day before. Still, at one point I had to excuse myself because I was getting too frustrated. Russ worked on it by himself (he’s much more patient than I) and made good progress. By the time I dared return, we were working mostly on the candle, which was much easier than the foliage and the berries. We ended up needing to make some modifications to the parts so that the candle would fit properly but finally, after three days, we finished!

Much rejoicing ensued, but we were careful not to touch the decoration for fear it would collapse in a heap. I’m thinking we might need to cover it with a glass case so that the grandkids don’t touch it when they visit. 😊

Russ brought up the idea of taking it all apart once the holidays are over so that we could try to build it “properly” next year. I told him there’s no way I’m building that thing again. Besides, I’m pretty sure we followed the directions correctly. Maybe we should just coat it in superglue so that it will last for a few years . . ?

A Kitchen Remodel in 12 Steps

Our kitchen before the remodel.

Buoyed by the results of my bathroom remodel as a single person, during the COVID pandemic in 2021, after I married to Russ, we decided to join the home remodeling mania sweeping the nation and take on our dark, outdated eat-in kitchen. I originally wrote this post for a friend who was considering a kitchen remodel and wanted to know the steps. I thought I might as well share it here, too!

After watching yet more home improvement shows, we settled our sights on a white farmhouse style with royal blue accents and black appliances. We liked the kitchen’s current size and layout; we just wanted to refresh the cabinets and a couple of the appliances. I had already replaced the impossible-to-keep-clean white linoleum floor with a rustic gray faux hardwood floor a few years previously, so we didn’t need to do anything to that.

Our kitchen after demo day. Note the long-handled axe on the table. It felt so satisfying to apply it to those dated and dark cabinets!

One advantage of not changing the footprint is that in most places, you won’t need a city permit for the work, which makes the job faster and less complicated. If you are going to change the footprint, you might want to leave the new flooring installation until after the cabinets are in place.

If you’re going to get new appliances, it’s good to know their measurements before you order the cabinets so you can ensure you have enough space for them in the cabinet design. You don’t necessarily need to have the appliances in hand but knowing measurements of ones you plan to buy would be good. It seems like everything is growing larger these days, including appliances! Same with the sink.

Our new farmhouse sink and faucet.

True to my actions with the bathroom, the first thing I bought for our remodel was the sink! We chose a white farmhouse style to replace our stainless-steel divided one. We enjoy the larger space we have now for stacking used pots and pans before they go in the dishwasher. Also, our plumber was impressed. When he was installing the faucets and disposal, he said with envy, “That’s a nice sink.” High praise, indeed, coming from a professional.

Then comes the cabinetry and the electrician (if you’re changing anything or adding lighting). We did our cabinets through Home Depot and were satisfied. They have good sales sometimes, too. Installation made up about half of the total cost of the cabinets.

We also ordered our countertop through Home Depot. Before you order your countertop, you’ll need to know what kind of faucet you’ll have for the kitchen sink. Some need more holes in the countertop than others.

Our kitchen after the remodel. (Note the requisite staging lemons on the table.)

Our remodel cost $24,000 total (2021 dollars) but we had some extra tiling installed on the furnace chimney, which runs through the kitchen, plus we picked a fancy backsplash for the sink wall. We were able to afford it due to an inheritance. If I had used a contractor, the price would have been much higher. As it was, I acted as the contractor. There was a five-month delay getting the tile installed due to COVID issues, but that didn’t bother us much because the kitchen was functional at that point. When the furnace chimney was being retiled, we found an interesting piece of history inside the walls, which I described in a post a few years ago.

This chimney used to be covered by the same white Z-brick (fake bricks) that were on the original kitchen backsplash. We had that taken off and replaced with a gray stone tile.
A close-up of the new backsplash and quartz countertop.

After the remodel was all over, we installed a cozy Vermont cast iron gas stove between the kitchen and the living room. A leaky unused chimney was already there; apparently, some previous homeowner had taken their stove with them when they left. Getting that leak repaired was much needed.

We love how bright the kitchen is now. Cooking in it is a joy!

Here’s a breakdown of the steps.

1: Decide your style and pick out appliances. Note their measurements. Also pick out sink and note measurements.

2: Plan cabinets.

3: Demo (we did it ourselves to save $$) and order a dumpster. If your old cabinets are in good shape, consider donating them to a local organization.

4: Consult with an electrician.

5: Install cabinets and electrical (flooring could be done any time after cabinets are in), choose lighting and cabinet hardware.

6: Install appliances and sink. You’ll need a plumber to install the dishwasher.

7: Pick out a faucet and install the countertops.

8: Buy faucet/disposal and have a plumber install them unless you are handy that way.

9: Choose and buy the backsplash, install.

10: Paint whatever is needed. We painted two window trims white.

 11: Buy a kitchen table and chairs (if needed).

12: The final and most important step is to enjoy your new kitchen!

A Bathroom Remodel: The Case of the Orange Sink

My bathroom: before the remodel.

In 2025, my house will be one hundred years old. When I first moved in twenty-four years ago, the main first-floor bathroom was in dire need of a makeover. It featured a brown vanity top with an orange sink and gold fixtures that screamed 1980s. The avocado tub surround had an accordion plastic door that one of my children eventually poked pin holes through in a mysterious pattern that I could never quite make out.

The bathroom after demo. I think this is where the vanity used to be.

I hated that orange sink but over the years while I saved money for the remodel, it grew on me. By the time I had funds a few years ago, I almost liked the sink. It was retro, which was in, after all. But I still hated the rest of the bathroom.

Then I fell in love with a glass orange and red bowl/vessel sink that I happened to walk by at Menards. It was shaped like a leaf and was the perfect size for the vanity. I wasn’t ready to begin my remodeling project at that point, but I made a mental note of that gorgeous sink. Yes, it was still orange, but not an obnoxious orange.

The day came when I had gained confidence from watching enough home improvement shows that I felt ready for the remodel. The first thing I bought was that Menards sink. I consulted with a contractor and told him I wanted to design the new bathroom around that sink. I didn’t need to change to footprint of the room; it was plenty large. I just wanted to rip everything down to the studs and make everything new, from floor to ceiling.

So, that’s what we did. The contractor did most of the labor, but I did end up spending one Memorial Day Weekend cleaning up caulk on the shower wall tiles at the request of the tiler. I didn’t mind; I didn’t have anything else going on then. Plus, I needed to make all the design decisions. I spent many weekends strolling the aisles of Menards and Home Depot and other showrooms for ideas. This was my first remodel job, so I had a lot to learn, but the contractor was great to work with.

Bye bye orange sink!

A large dumpster was parked in my driveway. On demo day, I was almost wistful when the orange sink made its way to the top of the heap of refuse inside the dumpster. We had another bathroom on the second floor that we could use during the three-week project, so were happily still able to bathe, etc.

The bathroom after the remodel, but before I put a mirror above the sink.

I chose a black granite vanity top and was excited to get a remnant piece at a discount. The cherry cabinets had to be custom-made because vanities didn’t come in the size I needed. I also had two upper cabinets crafted to match. The contractor ripped out the annoying blinking florescent lights and installed can lights in the ceiling and a woodsy fixture that I chose over the new sink. Those lights reflect off the sink in a most appealing way.

For the wall behind the sink, I chose a stone tile to cover the whole thing. The contractor had never done that before but agreed it was a great idea (which I got from those aforementioned home improvement shows.)

The shower after remodel.

Since I had a bathtub in my other bathroom, I no longer needed one in the new bathroom, so I turned it into a large walk-in tiled shower with a small seat carved into one corner. I worked with the tile guy on a design and picked out polished stone tile for the shower floor. The glass door was harder to clean than the old plastic one, but the installer gave me the advice of using Rain-X weekly to keep the minerals from building up, and that’s made things a lot easier.

Once it was done, I loved my new bathroom, plus I got to keep an orangish sink! I was so happy that I wanted to move my computer desk into the shower and spend all my time there. I did not do that, but I do probably spend a little extra time there every morning after my shower, just because.

Next up: a kitchen remodel!