I usually try to keep things light on my blog, but this guest post I wrote for the “Happiness Between Tails” blog by da-AL blows that out of the water. These were my thoughts around New Year’s Eve this year. I hope you find them meaningful and helpful.
Marie, that is a very moving and brave story to tell. I’m glad you have been able to finally let go of the family trauma and focus on others. Your sister was a beautiful soul, and a shame she was tormented into taking those actions.
Thank you, Eilene! My sister Debby was very artistic and I think that sometimes her physical beauty was a curse. I’m glad we were able to spend more time with her even though it wasn’t what she wanted.
I read the essay. It’s powerful. It took a lot of courage for you to write it.
Thank you. This story’s been lurking in my trunk for quite a while. It just seemed like the right time to unearth it.
I’m glad you have been able to find a way forward after so many years.
I tried to kill myself with pills when I was twelve….our general practitioner was a gem and did just the right thing for me..telling me to harden up, don’t give in and get on. So I did.
Oh man, that advice you received was rather harsh! But I’m glad it worked for you. Stiff upper lip and all that! It’s sad that we need to harden up to survive sometimes.
Better sooner than later!
Marie, this is a heartbreaking essay. Hugs to you!
Thank you, Jennifer. This one took a lot out of me, but it was worth it.
I am so sorry for what you all went through, including your sister. ❤️
Life can be a roller coaster. Glad you are still riding it. Hang on tight and scream when necessary. Thanks for the stories.
Thanks for being my friend that I can scream along with!!
thanks so very much for reblogging here, Marie, & most of all for guesting. your post is a gift to anyone who reads it
Thank you for ferreting me out in the blogosphere and inviting me to post! I am enjoying following your blog and meeting other bloggers.
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Thank you for sharing these powerful and deeply touching experiences, Marie. 💜
Thanks for reading, Carol.